This month, many Will witness the best of times, some will start new ideas, others will break into great opportunities.
As for me I also decided that this month, I will deliberately allow only positive thoughts gets into me and give positive response to myself, people and situations.
There is this saying that “Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything”.
It is time to challenge yourself this month, Affirm that you will only allow positive thoughts go in and out of your mind, and also you will say only positive things to yourself and situations around you.
You can start this morning by saying.
Today will be a great day for me.
I refuse to worry about today or tomorrow.
No weapon formed against me shall prosper. All my goals will be achieved this year.
I am the best version of me.
All my sins are forgiven.
Others don’t define me.
I am not perfect, I will start over again.
In the middle of these, “things” will happen, people will step on your toes, you must remember to say, I decide what goes into me and go out, no one should determine my happiness, I do.
I challenge you too, be positive throughout this month, you can start today and you will see amazing results and change all around you.
So this morning on bed, I was having a concise thought about who God is, the angels, how real are these things, how do they operate.
The truth is that I want to enjoy the presence of God and the visitation of angels, like we have in the Bible.
Since the day I married my beautiful wife Marie, I know God had placed me as a covering to her and all our children, much more so that I want them to enjoy God’s love and presence everyday.
As a husband and husband to be, build yourself to be a covering to your wife and children, in my new article, I will be sharing some experiences how I have learnt to be a covering as a husband.
I have been learning believe me.
To the juice…
It will guide you right if you choose to marry a woman of your dreams if you see it as God sees it. Searching for it as God will search for it, asking as God will want to ask. Well God is answerable to no one… But we’re to Him
Most times we deal with humans from the physical appearance. A friend once said when I saw her from afar I just knew she was my wife, I was at the airport and she was walking down, I went and told her she’s mine and we’re married. I wouldn’t want to gamble like that.
I will never judge anyone with their appearance so I will not choose a wife with her looks alone.
If God want to choose, where does he look; the heart. Character, attitude, behaviour, and the likes.
David was small and Ruddy, Gideon, Peter was a fisher man. Even Zacheus was small. But there’s something about these men, they are lowly, believing, trusting, faithful, diehard…
Remember these men chosen by God were not perfect, even after different encounters with God they still made mistakes.
The man and the lady are not perfect they must be lowly, believing and trusting. Stop looking for a perfect husband or wife.
I asked the Lord as I lay on my bed in deep thoughts, He said, I look at the heart first.
Trust God to help you, and He will. Our understanding is limited especially in heart issues. That’s why we were told in “Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.”
When you marry a lady with the right heart, it helps you love the other things. God will always tell you what to do, and how to go about loving yourselves.
2Timothy 1:9 For God saved us and called us to live a holy life. He did this, not because we deserved it, but because that was his plan from before the beginning of time—to show us his grace through Christ Jesus.
If I may ask, what are the things you care about in your spouse or spouse to be.
Are they from the heart or the body. Are they from God or man.
Here is my prayer:
The Lord direct your hearts into the love of God… In Jesus name amen.
The more I move forward in my knowledge for personal development and spiritual growth, I notice there is more space at the top.
The deeper I dive the deeper it get. I concluded it will never end. There is no ending to personal achievements or spiritual attainments. You will only get as much time as you put in.
It’s a new month, I want to call it another standard check on our year goals.
You want to ask, if you are doing the right things, or are your models wrong, are you heading the right direction?
Some people are on the throttle, their heads are lifted and the acceleration has picked, but pretty much some are still asking questions.
In the middle of these, I want to ask questions and seek answers. I want to think, and help myself.
Should I remodel, maybe I have missed it. Should I ask more questions. I think I should hold on and refill?
It can only come to one thing, GROWTH. Are your methods laddering you. If you check your progress bar, are you climbing? If your bar level is still at 0/700, your job at this point is to start filling.
If your goal is to write a book, you must break it down further if your previous model is exhausting. But you must never stop writing or skip the models that will help you achieve the book.
Sometimes our models are cumbersome, because we sometimes assume it is easy, we soon get tired, so break your goals down.
If you want to read 5 chapters in a day at a sitting, you might have to read 2 chapters first then later the same day read 3 chapters. You see how easy it is to accomplish the same task.
One motivational quote says
“Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments”
Your goals will never be achieved without discipline.
Think, think, think again and start filling your progress bar. Your goals are just few steps away.
When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.
I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.
When I found I couldn’t change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn’t change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.
Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world.
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