Why men die early.

Don’t be a slave to the world and the processes. So many of us are either carried by the wind of money and good life.

We do all it takes to stay awake all night and work all day to make money, find fame, influence and power.

Chasing the world and the processes alone is very dangerous, many have found their death, regrets, disappointment.

All these listed above are good in fact they are beautiful to have.

Only 10% of your happiness comes from external circumstances.Remaining 90% comes with your inner thoughts & feelings accroding to psychology.

Power, money, fame, politics, science, wealth, only contribute little to your happiness, and eventually they will end, fade, or you leave them behind.

What You Should Start Doing Now.

Be relentless, go after activities that keep your soul alive and well.

Go after relationship that keep your soul alive.

Go to places where your soul will be nourished.

Pursue after righteousness and godliness.

Think of eternity, your soul is save with Christ.

°°°°°°°Think about these things.°°°°°°°

Stay Positive This Month

This month, many Will witness the best of times, some will start new ideas, others will break into great opportunities.

As for me I also decided that this month, I will deliberately allow only positive thoughts gets into me and give positive response to myself, people and situations.

There is this saying that “Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything”.

It is time to challenge yourself this month, Affirm that you will only allow positive thoughts go in and out of your mind, and also you will say only positive things to yourself and situations around you.

You can start this morning by saying.

  1. Today will be a great day for me.
  2. I refuse to worry about today or tomorrow.
  3. No weapon formed against me shall prosper. All my goals will be achieved this year.
  4. I am the best version of me.
  5. All my sins are forgiven.
  6. Others don’t define me.
  7. I am not perfect, I will start over again.

In the middle of these, “things” will happen, people will step on your toes, you must remember to say, I decide what goes into me and go out, no one should determine my happiness, I do.

I challenge you too, be positive throughout this month, you can start today and you will see amazing results and change all around you.

#motivational #motivated #positivevibes

Wisdom is Profitable..

Wisdom is not common sense, it is acquired. It is not native ability or experience.

Someone said Make your lives a masterpiece, you only get one canvas. Since we all got one life it will be selfish to live it for self alone.

As a people we live as family units, we have organisations, associations, groups, something called economy then government.

When you examine the leaders especially in this part of the world, Africa and other 3rd world country, I wonder which class they belong.

A wise man will not steal, throw chairs and punches. A wise man will not lie, they will be true to his/her word.

Look at the people elected into positions of leadership did you vote a wise man to lead you? Sir/Ma if you voted someone that is not wise don’t expect a change or transformation you think you need.

We are amputated and ambushed.

Leadership cannot be transferred from father to son, god-father to god-son like it is done this days.

The ones you will vote for tomorrow, will determine if this country will leap or crawl. It’s time to take responsibility.

You owe your children and children’s children.

It’s time.

Searching For The Right Person.

So this morning on bed, I was having a concise thought about who God is, the angels, how real are these things, how do they operate.

The truth is that I want to enjoy the presence of God and the visitation of angels, like we have in the Bible.

Since the day I married my beautiful wife Marie, I know God had placed me as a covering to her and all our children, much more so that I want them to enjoy God’s love and presence everyday.

As a husband and husband to be, build yourself to be a covering to your wife and children, in my new article, I will be sharing some experiences how I have learnt to be a covering as a husband.

I have been learning believe me.

To the juice…
It will guide you right if you choose to marry a woman of your dreams if you see it as God sees it. Searching for it as God will search for it, asking as God will want to ask. Well God is answerable to no one… But we’re to Him

Most times we deal with humans from the physical appearance. A friend once said when I saw her from afar I just knew she was my wife, I was at the airport and she was walking down, I went and told her she’s mine and we’re married. I wouldn’t want to gamble like that.

I will never judge anyone with their appearance so I will not choose a wife with her looks alone.

If God want to choose, where does he look; the heart. Character, attitude, behaviour, and the likes.

David was small and Ruddy, Gideon, Peter was a fisher man. Even Zacheus was small. But there’s something about these men, they are lowly, believing, trusting, faithful, diehard…

Remember these men chosen by God were not perfect, even after different encounters with God they still made mistakes.

The man and the lady are not perfect they must be lowly, believing and trusting. Stop looking for a perfect husband or wife.

I asked the Lord as I lay on my bed in deep thoughts, He said, I look at the heart first.

Trust God to help you, and He will. Our understanding is limited especially in heart issues. That’s why we were told in “Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.”

When you marry a lady with the right heart, it helps you love the other things. God will always tell you what to do, and how to go about loving yourselves.
2Timothy 1:9 For God saved us and called us to live a holy life. He did this, not because we deserved it, but because that was his plan from before the beginning of time—to show us his grace through Christ Jesus.

If I may ask, what are the things you care about in your spouse or spouse to be.

Are they from the heart or the body. Are they from God or man.

Here is my prayer:
The Lord direct your hearts into the love of God… In Jesus name amen.

Why People Are Leaving Nigeria

Thousands of Nigerians have been brought back from Libya and many other countries in recent times.

In a report in punch newspaper the total number of returnees are about 4000.
People are not running from this country because the weather is too hot, neither is it because of drought or the soil is not fertile.
People are leaving from the product of bad leadership. We leave the most blessed continent in natural minerals to countries with fewer minerals because, because our leader have failed.
Someone said if there is a slave ship in the dock many might still jump in it to travel abroad.
Wait, don’t we hear of people that travel with all their life savings just to clean corpse. Or the ones that sold their properties plus inheritance to travel the desert in search of better life.
Don’t get this all wind up before you conclude I said traveling abroad is bad or a sin.
Here is the Sauce…
No one will travel to get proper health care abroad if the person’s saddled with the responsibilities to make that sector works in Nigeria has done his or her job well.
If you think our currency is a mess, some people destroyed the system.
We are so blessed with soil and weather that the people saddled with the responsibilities to make the agricultural ministry work have gone asleep.
I once wrote an exam, and my name was missing in the promotion list, days later I heard names of people that were late was on the list.
Some leaders have failed to work.
We play the religion track, or the state of origin track and play the song so loud so much that the people overseas makes us a comedy show.
It’s not about a political party or a person, I am talking to you.
Why would anyone want to go to Libya, America, Canada, UK, etc as a slave?
Some people called leaders have been sleeping, childish, selfish and not capable.
Our country has been turned into a country with chaos in all sector.
Sometimes you walk round some towns and you see the filth and rubbish everywhere, and you ask yourself questions.
We have lost the taste to create meaning out of life. We just live.
No good schools, hospitals, power supply, housing, road, and the basic things.
Wake the leaders close to you. Tell them it is time. No room for childish and selfish ambitions. Let’s build Nigeria together.
If you travel abroad or you are abroad, remember you have a country to build for yourself and the next generation.
Let’s make it happen. Make Nigeria happen.

Rethink. Refill.

The more I move forward in my knowledge for personal development and spiritual growth, I notice there is more space at the top.

The deeper I dive the deeper it get. I concluded it will never end. There is no ending to personal achievements or spiritual attainments. You will only get as much time as you put in.

It’s a new month, I want to call it another standard check on our year goals.

You want to ask, if you are doing the right things, or are your models wrong, are you heading the right direction?

Some people are on the throttle, their heads are lifted and the acceleration has picked, but pretty much some are still asking questions.

In the middle of these, I want to ask questions and seek answers. I want to think, and help myself.

Should I remodel, maybe I have missed it. Should I ask more questions. I think I should hold on and refill?

The Juice.
It can only come to one thing, GROWTH. Are your methods laddering you. If you check your progress bar, are you climbing? If your bar level is still at 0/700, your job at this point is to start filling.

If your goal is to write a book, you must break it down further if your previous model is exhausting. But you must never stop writing or skip the models that will help you achieve the book.

Sometimes our models are cumbersome, because we sometimes assume it is easy, we soon get tired, so break your goals down.

If you want to read 5 chapters in a day at a sitting, you might have to read 2 chapters first then later the same day read 3 chapters. You see how easy it is to accomplish the same task.

One motivational quote says
“Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishments”

Your goals will never be achieved without discipline.

Think, think, think again and start filling your progress bar. Your goals are just few steps away.

You Can Change The World.

When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.

When I found I couldn’t change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn’t change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now, as an old man, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world.